Beat social anxiety and build your social skills

Social anxiety is crippling. It’s extremely frustrating to not be able to interact with other people the way you’d want to.

It impacts your life at high school, at college and at uni.

It can shut down your chances of getting a job.

It neutralizes your love life.

It sucks.

But you CAN beat it. Let me show you how.

Imagine

Imagine how your life would be if you would be extremely socially confident.

Suppose you could finally go to the social events that you’ve always dreaded. That you can finally have lunch with coworkers without feeling awkward. That you can talk to that girl that you’ve had your eye on for quite a while.

Seems impossible right?

I used to think just that. And I thought it was a character trait. It was just how I was. And it was the way it would always be.

Fortunately, it turns out that’s not the case.

Social anxiety is caused by a lack of social skills and social confidence. Those are two things that can be worked on and learned.

They are skills, which means they can be learned. 

Just like you may have raised your Speech or Charisma skills in games like Fallout, Skyrim or other RPGs you can raise your Speech/Charisma skill in real life.

 

The Social Nerd Coaching Step-by-step Guide

It took me many years to beat social anxiety.

I started learning, testing and improving when I was 21 years old. You can read my whole story here. It’s too long to post here 😉

For me to become socially skilled and to no longer be afraid took about 5 years.

That is a LONG time

I tried dozens of techniques. I experimented with all sorts of ways to start a conversation.

I failed time and time again. Conversations got awkward, contacts faded and it was a really messy experimental phase.

But at some point I started finally figuring out what worked. It turned out that I really didn’t need that many techniques or tactics to beat my social anxiety.

If I had known that earlier it could have saved me a lot of time.

I don’t want you to have that same experience. I want you to beat your social anxiety fast, so that you don’t have to struggle anymore!

That’s why I created this Step by Step guide. 

In this guide you’ll find the techniques and tactics that worked. The real core principles that fixed social anxiety for me.

Don’t worry, it’s not a 900 page tome that you have to work through, nor is it a single page that says “get gud scrub”.

No, in this guide you’ll find the 5 steps that got me from social noob to socialized nerd.

Every step has the tactics and techniques that you need to succeed in that step, so that you too can become socially confident.

What results can you expect?

What happens when you boost those social skills for your character in video games?

Usually it gives you new options to your character. You can pick certain options that weren’t available before.

After reading and applying the tactics in this guide you can expect the same results: you will have more options.

You can expect:

  • Not to feel awkward in groups anymore
  • Not to feel judged anymore
  • Not to be lonely anymore
  • To be able to talk to people of your choosing
  • To confidently start a conversation
  • To not have a conversation die out after the first 5 minutes
  • To confidently ask people for things
  • To be able to open up in a conversation

These are just some of the results you can expect if you build your social skills and beat your anxiety.

Results others have had

Other nerds who have already bought and used the Guide have sent me these messages:

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For who

If you recognize any of the following, then this guide is for you:

  • I feel like others are always judging me
  • It’s hard to say “no” to a request
  • I don’t know how to start a conversation
  • I can’t go out to public places
  • I can’t do smalltalk
  • I can’t talk to people I don’t know
  • I can’t talk about me in a conversation
  • I can’t look people in the eye
  • I feel like people don’t want me around
  • I never joined a VoIP server because find talking to others daunting

Any of those sound familiar? If so, then this guide will help you.

Define “nerd”?

You might be confused by my use of the term “nerd”. A nerd to me is someone who:

  • is highly intelligent
  • is interested in computers/gadgets
  • likes gaming
  • watches intellectual shows
  • is into other stuff than his or her peers
  • has a slight lack of social skills

Now, I still consider myself a nerd! It’s not like I suddenly became somebody else when I trained myself out of social awkwardness. Not at all.

But I can now be myself while I’m socially confident at the same time. That’s why I set up this site: so you too can be a social nerd.

What will you learn in the guide?

This guide helps you by going through 5 steps.

They are the 5 steps that I took to go from socially anxious and awkward to socially capable.

We’ll be going over building your confidence, going to social events, how to build friendships and how to be at ease in groups.

You’ll learn about smalltalk, that feeling of being a weirdo and how to not see others as a threat.

How does it work?

Sorry, I could just not resist adding the meme here. It perfectly fits this guide 😉

Beating social anxiety is partly looking in and challenging your mindset. The other part is doing it: talking to people.

In this guide you’ll find tactics on how to deal with various social situations you can frequently encounter.

They are the steps that worked for me to beat my social anxiety and build my social skills.

Since it’s a written guide you can go through is as fast or as slow as you like. That is entirely up to you.

You might blast through it and start using the tactics tomorrow. Or you can take it slower and gradually work these into your daily routine and interactions. It’s your choice.

This also means that you yourself directly impact how long it takes to see effects!

I can show you what to do, but if you just stick to reading the guide and learning the tactics nothing will change.

You have to DO this stuff, USE the tactics and APPLY the techniques to build your social confidence!

The guide is something can download right away to get going. It’s an online guide, so no need to wait for it to finally get shipped to you.

What about being authentic?

Glad you asked.

“Being authentic” is a concern for many people these days. And it should be!

This guide is not going to force you to be something you’re not. People would see right through it.

No point to that.

Here’s how I look at it: right now, as you’re struggling with social anxiety you are not being authentic.

That might sound weird. Let me explain.

I believe that everybody has something interesting about them. Everybody has something to give to the world.

Right now your social anxiety is getting in your way. It’s preventing you from being the person you want to be.

Because behind that nerdy, introverted and socially awkward appearance is an interesting person. Somebody who wants to be much more!

You are worthy my friend. You have a place here.

You just don’t have the social skills to fully express yourself yet. 

That’s why I think you’re not being authentic right now. And that’s what I want to help you become ;).

Ready?

Ready to start leveling up your social skill and beat social anxiety once and for all?

Eager to get going?

Great, let’s get started.

You can get the guide for just $19,97.

After your payment you can download it instantly.

Click on the Buy Now button down below to continue.

What if it doesn’t work?

What if you use everything from the guide and it STILL doesn’t work?

In that case I’ll refund your money.

You have 60 days to go over the guide, use the tactics and techniques and apply the material.

No effect for you whatsoever? Send me an email inside the 60 day period and I’ll refund your purchase.